Okay maybe my complaining is making it worse. Today Brent came home from work and said I think the car is done. Then he said, "could you imagine what our life would be like if we were not serving in the church? We have been blessed with so many blessings I don't want to think what it would be like otherwise." I then thought I am glad one of us is in the right frame of mind because that wasn't my first thought. Such a sweetie!